Today we have Chelsey Hall joining us from Life Unabridged. I started following her blog several years back and was instantly connected with her. Though we've never met in real life,she's been a blessing to me in my spiritual walk. Let's listen to what she has to say to us today.
As much as I would like to say that I am kind and gracious when it comes to handling interruptions, I'd probably be lying through my teeth.
I
am a perfectionist and a planner... and a first born. Most firstborns
will tell you... this is just the way we are wired. I like to have a
plan and schedule for everything. Oh, and WATCH out if you get in MY
way and mess up my plans.
Oh.
No. You. Didn't.
Oh
yes. Sigh. I am that person.
I
don't always handle interruptions well. BUT, suffice it say, the Lord
has been GRACIOUSLY working on this with me. He IS showing me just
how much I miss out bringing glory to HIM, when I let
the interruptions get the best of me. And, I truly am
getting better. Actually, I have no choice BUT to get better... I am
blessed with many children, and many children mean tons of
opportunities to practice dealing with interruptions.
I'll
give you an example of one area, that up until recently was a HIGH
frustration on my list:
When
I was a teenager, God impressed it upon my heart that I needed to
give him the first part of my mornings. I would wake up early, before
school, and have some alone time with God... read my Bible, pray and
write in my journal. It has been a part of who I am for a long time.
As I came a mother it became more and more difficult to keep up with
my morning times. As such, began stressing about my quiet times. I
tried waking up early only to have a little one wake up even earlier,
and it always resulted in frustration toward said child for
infringing on “my time”. It would put me in a "mood"
and I'd be irritable towards the children.
And
then I read a profound yet simple statement by Stacy McDonald:
When
reading your Bible, don't get frustrated when you're interrupted
right at the "good parts."
Learn
to view those inevitable moments of interruption as teaching
opportunities planned by God.
All
the sudden it hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn't have to
have secluded alone time to be in HIS presence.
Throughout
our life we go through different seasons. As a mother, you go through
a season of raising little ones. And as any mom of littles knows,
your time is NOT your own. Rarely do you get moments all to yourself
(and if you do most of the time you chose to use them to sleep!!).
Having
little ones means you are in a season of interruptions.
Every time
I change a diaper, kiss a boo-boo, make a meal, teach a child their
ABC's, or an older one how to divide with fractions, I can be in
God's presence. It is a constant battle in my daily life to
remember this and to not be so focused that I only see the
interruptions, delays and inconveniences as frustrations instead of
the opportunities that lie in them for God to reveal Himself.
I
still do try and get up early in the morning before the children
arise to spend some quiet moments with Him. But now, if I
get interrupted, rather than get frustrated, I stop and thank
the Father for the interruption and the opportunity for the
teachable moment to minister to my children's' heart.
Chelsey is the mama of eight blessings (seven here on earth and one playing at the feet of Jesus), and has been married to her sweet man for almost 20 years. She shares her every day real-life, uncut adventures at Life Unabridged and would be tickled pink if you'd stop by and say hi.
I want to thank Chelsey so much for guest posting today. She has such a sweet spirit. I love what she said to us. Be sure to check out her blog and tell her how much you appreciated her willingness today.
Linking up with Darlene at Time-Warp Wife for Titus 2sdays.
Love this Chelsey! Thanks for sharing, Heather :)
ReplyDeleteI have the same problems with interruptions, and with little ones, interruptions abound! God gave me some insights about this as well, that I shared in a post called "My time is not my own" some similar ideas...http://www.servingjoyfully.com/2012/09/05/phil-21-8-my-time-is-not-my-own/
Crystal, thanks and so glad you stopped by. Interruptions are definitely common place with littles!! Heading over now to check out your post! :)
ReplyDeleteHello, from a fellow "I am a perfectionist and a planner... and a first born."
ReplyDeleteThank you for this post - your sweet spirit shines through :)
God teaches us so many wonderful things through the interruptions (yes, our children) doesn't he?
Jesus said, "let the little children come" why should I be any different?
My kids are interrupting me right now! :) But yes, absolutely, we are to be servants and that usually means my neat and tidy plans don't happen quite as I would like.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by ladies! I have been busy all day,we're having VBS at our church this week.
ReplyDeleteCrystal- I have had some insights myself and it wasn't pretty. I'm going to check out your post!
Linda- I am not a first born,but I should have been. :) I am a planner and perfectionist,but a middle child. God has taught me SO much through my children when I finally was wiling to let Him.
Sarah- My child is interrupting me too. :) My plans rarely go as planned and I am still learning to let it go. It's not easy though!
Hi Heather! Nice to virtually meet you and I can totally relate. :-)
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